Here's a Resolution we can Keep

As January sweeps in we often make a flurry of resolutions and set ambitious goals to make it our best year yet.  The most common one I hear is wanting to lose weight. We vow to hit the gym more, eat healthier, and shed those extra pounds that have been bothering us for months. But let's face it, by the time the third week of the month rolls around, our motivation tends to wane causing us to make the same resolutions year after year. Instead of falling into the trap of endless weight loss aspirations, let's take a different approach this year – one that's all about embracing your current size and demanding that your closet does too.

Let me ask you this: How many of us have lived our lives with the constant thought, "I just need to lose 10 more pounds and then it will fit again"? Having spent years styling women and more closet interventions than I can count, I will confidently say that a significant percentage of them struggle with poor body image issues, regardless of whether they are carrying extra weight or not. It's important to recognize that your weight journey is uniquely yours, and I'm not here to guide you on your weight loss goals. 

However, I want to share with you the incredible impact of having only clothes in your closet that fit you right now. (That includes your drawers, too.)

When you pull something out of your closet that doesn't fit correctly – whether it's too tight, too big, or simply doesn't make you feel happy – it can take a toll on your self-esteem. Psychologically, most women tend to internalize this as a reflection of themselves, thinking, *There must be something wrong with me,* instead of attributing it to the garment.

Here's a simple solution: if you know it's something you'll likely never wear again, consider donating it. Remove it from your closet, and free yourself from the unnecessary burden of clothes that no longer serve you. Done and dusted!

For those of us whose weight tends to fluctuate within a 10-pound range, consider creating two bins – one for *too small* items and one for *too big* items. Store these bins somewhere else in your home. This way, when you open your closet, you'll only find clothes that fit you comfortably and confidently.

Embracing your current size and decluttering your wardrobe can have a profound impact on your self-esteem and overall well-being. By removing ill-fitting clothes and those that no longer suit your style, you'll create a positive environment that celebrates your unique body shape and size. So, this year, let's make a resolution to love and accept ourselves as we are, and demand that our closets do the same. 

It's time to take stock of what you've been wearing - or, not wearing and getting rid of some of the stuff that's held you back from being the real YOU.